Posts Tagged Babito

Big Boy Bed

For months, my wife and I had discussed getting Babito a twin bed. The crib seemed to be getting smaller and smaller. Luckily for us, we had time since Babito had never once tried to climb out of his crib (which is amazing considering he climbs up everything else!).

Finally, we found a nice twin bed with both drawers and a trundle bed. It looks like the one below, just without the garish solar system bedspread. Babito has a garish Thomas the Train bedspread.

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While we waited for the bed to be delivered, we began talking up the “big boy bed.” We had Babito to the point of utter excitement about it, although you could tell he was slightly nervous. I’d be putting him in his crib at night, telling him that soon he would be sleeping in a big boy bed. He would always ask me, “Will you pick me up and get me out of it?” I tried to explain to him that he would be able to get in and out of the bed all by himself. I didn’t think he really grasped the concept.

Finally, last Sunday, his bed was delivered. He was excited to see his bed with the cool Thomas the Train sheets, blankets, pillow cases, and bedspread.

That night, after our many bedtime rituals, he climbed up on his bed and I joined him for some book reading. When I finished the two books we had selected he asked me to read them again, so I did. After the second reading he asked me to read them yet again. Normally, when he pulls this kind of stunt, I put my foot down and tell him no, but since it was going to be his first night in his new bed I indulged him.

After the third readings, I told him good night, kissed him, blessed him, told him I loved him, and said “See ya later, Alligator.” He said “After while, Crocodile.” (This is all another part of the bedtime ritual that must be strictly followed, or else.) As I walked out of the room he said “Daddy, I like my new bed. It’s nice.”

I looked back and my little boy, who looked so big in his little crib, looked so tiny in his new big boy bed. I could tell he was a little nervous, but he didn’t say anything else. He was going to be a brave little boy, and I couldn’t be prouder of him.

The next morning, after I had left for work, my wife went in to check on him. He was lying in bed. He was already awake. She said “Want me to get you out of bed?” Babito said, “No, this is a big boy bed, Mommy. I can get out ALL by MYSELF!” And he did. And he is. Way too fast.

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The Babito is Turning Three Soon

I can’t get my head around the fact that The Babito is going to turn three in three short months. What happened to my little baby boy?

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Time goes by so fast. He’s gone from a helpless infant to a bright, sensitive, hilarious, scheming, daredevil of a little boy.

One good thing about him getting older is that the quality of his toys (under the Daddy-friendly categorization) keeps getting better. I’m looking forward to when he fits into the age category for electric racetracks and video games. (He already loves to play “Pocket God” on my iPhone.)

What age-appropriate toys does a toy-loving Daddy need to know about? Please share them in the comments!

Also, we’re trying to figure out what to do for his birthday. We had a huge pool party at our house for his first birthday, complete with catered food and a clown. For his second birthday, we had a smaller party at My Gym.

Right now we’re leaning toward either having another party at My Gym or having a smaller party at our house. Barney may even show up if we have a party at home.

What have you done for a toddler’s birthday? Any great ideas out there?

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Ghost Town

We went to Knott’s Berry Farm yesterday. My wife and I had taken the day off with plans to take Babito to daycare while we cleaned up and organized the garage. We decided to make it a family day instead and headed over to Knott’s Berry Farm.

We bought annual passes a few months back when we visited with out-of-town relatives. We couldn’t pass it up, since annual passes were only $75 each. There are a lot of kid-friendly attractions for toddlers. Camp Snoopy has many rides that Babito likes, plus he got to see his new favorite character, Snoopy.

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As a kid, I loved going to Knott’s Berry Farm. I liked it as much as I liked Disneyland. Now, Knott’s doesn’t seem as nice as it used to be. I think they’ve kind of messed up their theming, plopping rollercoasters everywhere throughout the park. Also, the maintenance doesn’t seem quite up to par with Disneyland, but what is, right?

One thing that Knott’s does have going for it is the quality of their employees. Without fail they were all friendly, polite, and went out of their way to be nice to Babito, and that’s appreciated. If you’ve ever been on the train ride, you know that train robbers walk through the train and “rob” it during the ride. They still do that, but the train robber was especially cognizant of Babito and made sure not to scare him. He actually stopped and talked to him and called him “little buddy.” When we got off the train, Babito said “That cowboy is a nice guy. He called me little buddy.”

Here’s the train robber:

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Overall, it’s still a really fun place to take your kids. Babito loved it. The crowds were non-existant. We walked onto every single ride we went on. I’m actually surprised that they are open every day year-round. I would be willing to bet that there were more employees there than guests. Check it out:

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Babito’s favorite was the log ride. We all went on it and my wife got soaked. Babito wanted to go again right away, so I took him again while my wife waited. (She was already wet, so why not go again, right?)

We arrived at 2:00pm and did everything we wanted to do before the park closed at 6:00pm. Of course, we didn’t ride any of the rollercoasters, but I looked and there were no lines for any of them either. I’d recommend going to Knott’s. It’s still a fun place. Go during the week before the summer and you should have a great time. It’s almost like having an entire amusement park to yourself!

And it was a whole lot more fun than cleaning out the garage.

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Trains

The Babito is almost always still asleep when I leave for work in the morning.  Today I left a little later than usual because I was driving in instead of taking the train (because there’s a certain holiday on Sunday that I’m not yet prepared for.).

Anyway, he must have heard me talking to my wife, because he woke up and started calling for me to come in his room.  I was about to leave and didn’t want to go in his room because I’d only get to see him for a minute before I had to go, and I thought it would upset him when I had to leave.

My wife encouraged me to go see him for a minute, so I reluctantly went in his room.

“No work today, Daddy?”

“No, Daddy has to go to work.”

He asked me if I would play trains with him when I got home from work, and I said “Yes, I would love to play trains with you when I get home.”

I told him that I had to leave for work and he said that he wanted to go downstairs and say goodbye to me.  My wife was in our room getting ready for work, so I said no, you can say goodbye to me here.  He insisted that he wanted to go downstairs.  I was about to say no again when my wife walked in and said “It’s ok, we can go downstairs and say goodbye to Daddy.”

We went downstairs and I gave him a kiss goodbye and said “Have a nice day!”

Babito said “Have a nice day at work, Daddy!”

As I backed out of our driveway I looked over to our front window.  Babito was standing on the couch watching me leave and waving to me.  I waved back.  Even though it was 6:30 in the morning, I honked my horn, because he loves that.  I’m sure the neighbors didn’t, but that’s ok.

I’d been promising to play trains with him for the past few days but haven’t because I’ve been getting home right around the time I usually start him on his long bedtime routine of bathing and book reading.  Last night he cried when I told him it was time to go upstairs for his bath because he wanted to play trains first.  I said no and took him upstairs.  I should have played trains with him, if only for a few minutes.  But I didn’t.  And I should have.

I think because he cried about it I decided not to “reward” him with playing trains.  Of course none of us want to encourage crying and tantrums by giving in to them.  He is going through a stage right now where he occasionally throws a mini-tantrum if he doesn’t get his way.  Not always, and not too bad, but we don’t want the tantrums to escalate.  It’s reasonable, right?

Thinking about it this morning, I realized that I’ve been promising to play trains and I haven’t lived up to my promise.  Sometimes little kids have valid reasons for crying because maybe it’s just their way of showing disappointment for unmet promises.

I also realized that my wife gave him two special little gifts by making me go say Hi to him and by taking him downstairs to wave goodbye to me out the window.  I realized that I received two special gifts at the same time.  I realized that we shouldn’t be so strict with routines and schedules and the tempers of a 2 1/2 year old. 

Shortly after I got to work, I received an e-mail from my wife saying “Babito was so happy he got to see you this morning.  He’s been in such a great mood.  It made his day!” 

No, it made mine, and I can’t wait to play trains tonight, no matter what time I get home.

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